redeyedbastard:

Ace/Aro discourse makes me so uncomfortable because like, it’s just the same bullshit that got thrown at me as a bi woman but with a different paint job.

• “How can you be sure you’re bi ace/aro if you haven’t experimented?”

• “We support bi ace/aro people, buuut only if they’re a very specific type of bi ace/aro.”
• “Sure, bi ace/aro people are valid, they just don’t belong in the LGBT+ community”
• “But the issue is bi ace/aro people are taking up resources from real LGBT+ people!”
• “It’s just a phase!”
• “Look, bi ace/aro people aren’t really marginalized. Any issues they face are just misdirected homo/transphobia.”
• “Bi Trans Ace/Aro people are just our oppressors trying to invade our spaces!”

You aren’t that slick, fuck off into the slime pit that is biphobes, terfs, and other assholes.