This is difficult to answer, as I suppose you are asking me to define exactly what love is, or what love is defined by in the Bible. And this I cannot give a simple answer to. Perhaps it is defined best by Rumi, in his poem The Meaning of Love.
Both light and shadow are the dance of Love.
Love has no cause; it is the astrolabe of God’s secrets.
Lover and Loving are inseparable and timeless.
Although I may try to describe Love when I experience it I am speechless.
Although I may try to write about Love I am rendered helpless; my pen breaks and the paper slips away at the ineffable place where Lover, Loving and Loved are one.
Every moment is made glorious by the light of Love.
So I feel it is not hypocritical. I do not feel that what I and Dio share would not be within God’s light.
You cannot ground DIO 